Comments on: Resolving Conflicts: Peace or Drama? http://www.abundancetapestry.com/resolving-conflicts-peace-or-drama/ Love Yourself, Love Your Life Tue, 07 Feb 2012 04:42:40 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Evelyn http://www.abundancetapestry.com/resolving-conflicts-peace-or-drama/comment-page-1/#comment-25377 Evelyn Thu, 07 May 2009 06:31:36 +0000 http://www.attractionmindmap.com/?p=1340#comment-25377 @John, you are welcome :-) @Anita's cousin, welcome to my site. I am glad that my post resonated well with you. Thank you for letting me know how it provoked more thought. Yes, you do have a choice in changing your reality. You need to be watchful over your ego. It often does not help in your selection of what will be wise. I'm happy to know that you are now seeing the light and viewing your learning experiences positively! @TerryLynn, for a while, I had to avoid a lot of negative and unconscious people. I was not strong or having enough insight to handle the negative energy. I now choose who to "hang" around with. I work with what I can, at any point in time. You are right that negative influences provide us opportunities for learning and letting go of what is not helpful! @John, you are welcome :-)

@Anita’s cousin, welcome to my site. I am glad that my post resonated well with you. Thank you for letting me know how it provoked more thought. Yes, you do have a choice in changing your reality. You need to be watchful over your ego. It often does not help in your selection of what will be wise. I’m happy to know that you are now seeing the light and viewing your learning experiences positively!

@TerryLynn, for a while, I had to avoid a lot of negative and unconscious people. I was not strong or having enough insight to handle the negative energy. I now choose who to “hang” around with. I work with what I can, at any point in time. You are right that negative influences provide us opportunities for learning and letting go of what is not helpful!

]]> By: TerryLynn http://www.abundancetapestry.com/resolving-conflicts-peace-or-drama/comment-page-1/#comment-25375 TerryLynn Thu, 07 May 2009 05:45:30 +0000 http://www.attractionmindmap.com/?p=1340#comment-25375 Understanding and forgiveness & consciousness is a must! We are all mirror images of each other. It seems so easy to accept happiness over anger, happiness comes so natural without any effort of consciousness. We're all running on automatic pilot majority of the time. If we start focusing on observing our every moment with full attention in a mature way, it begins to open easier for us. Hanging around un-consious people helps to focus on where your mind is, in the moment/now. Don't avoid them. Reverse your steps in learning. Start with negativity energies then work your way back to peace of mind and letting go with every thought. I keep reminding this light being, I am blessed with all these other blessed beings, they are great teachers! ;-) Understanding and forgiveness & consciousness is a must! We are all mirror images of each other. It seems so easy to accept happiness over anger, happiness comes so natural without any effort of consciousness. We’re all running on automatic pilot majority of the time. If we start focusing on observing our every moment with full attention in a mature way, it begins to open easier for us. Hanging around un-consious people helps to focus on where your mind is, in the moment/now. Don’t avoid them. Reverse your steps in learning. Start with negativity energies then work your way back to peace of mind and letting go with every thought.
I keep reminding this light being, I am blessed with all these other blessed beings, they are great teachers! ;-)

]]> By: Anita's Cousin http://www.abundancetapestry.com/resolving-conflicts-peace-or-drama/comment-page-1/#comment-24954 Anita's Cousin Thu, 30 Apr 2009 14:29:18 +0000 http://www.attractionmindmap.com/?p=1340#comment-24954 Hi Evelyn, I am Anita's cousin:-) I discovered your site by searching "help in troubled times" and getting the link for 7 steps to surviving tough times. I cannot even begin to explain the journey I have been on for the past 13 months, well, really 26 months-ultimately 17 years! Most recently I have been involved in a very bitter custody dispute. The allegations made and accusations shook me to my core and instead of reacting like a victim, I got sick and tired and decided to go on the offense. I have ultimately paid a higher personal price for this choice. I was left feeling out of touch, like I did not even know myself. I resented being forced into this position, not accepting that I chose this position. Reading this post about choosing peace or drama helped me to confront that the very things that angered and terrified me about my "enemy" existed in me as well-scary! Your posts have been thought provoking and insightful. Thank you for putting this out there and sharing -it has been invaluable. After reading this post I decided to end the war and almost as soon as I made this decision, was rewarded with kind, reasonable and respectful communication from my "enemy." I am not sure if it can be trusted, but have decided that as long as I am at peace with my choices, the rest will fall into place. There is a christian saying that goes like this: God will change your mind before he changes your circumstances. A person very close to me told me this around the time I discovered your site and I just could not wrap my mind around this or the things you were saying about attracting what we want in our lives. I felt attacked and my EGO was in overdrive. Now I have been blessed by learning through personal experience....it really works! I am so thankful. Thank you:-) Hi Evelyn,
I am Anita’s cousin:-) I discovered your site by searching “help in troubled times” and getting the link for 7 steps to surviving tough times. I cannot even begin to explain the journey I have been on for the past 13 months, well, really 26 months-ultimately 17 years! Most recently I have been involved in a very bitter custody dispute. The allegations made and accusations shook me to my core and instead of reacting like a victim, I got sick and tired and decided to go on the offense. I have ultimately paid a higher personal price for this choice. I was left feeling out of touch, like I did not even know myself. I resented being forced into this position, not accepting that I chose this position. Reading this post about choosing peace or drama helped me to confront that the very things that angered and terrified me about my “enemy” existed in me as well-scary! Your posts have been thought provoking and insightful. Thank you for putting this out there and sharing -it has been invaluable. After reading this post I decided to end the war and almost as soon as I made this decision, was rewarded with kind, reasonable and respectful communication from my “enemy.” I am not sure if it can be trusted, but have decided that as long as I am at peace with my choices, the rest will fall into place. There is a christian saying that goes like this: God will change your mind before he changes your circumstances. A person very close to me told me this around the time I discovered your site and I just could not wrap my mind around this or the things you were saying about attracting what we want in our lives. I felt attacked and my EGO was in overdrive. Now I have been blessed by learning through personal experience….it really works! I am so thankful. Thank you:-)

]]> By: John http://www.abundancetapestry.com/resolving-conflicts-peace-or-drama/comment-page-1/#comment-24901 John Wed, 29 Apr 2009 18:32:18 +0000 http://www.attractionmindmap.com/?p=1340#comment-24901 Insightful post. Thanks for the different perspectives. Insightful post. Thanks for the different perspectives.

]]> By: Evelyn http://www.abundancetapestry.com/resolving-conflicts-peace-or-drama/comment-page-1/#comment-24885 Evelyn Wed, 29 Apr 2009 09:32:10 +0000 http://www.attractionmindmap.com/?p=1340#comment-24885 Hello Victor, No worries. I'm glad to have the opportunity to clarify in the email to you that I really do not see myself having "special" powers. As mentioned, spiritual or psychic abilities are not to be worshiped. We all have access to the same source, so in a way all of us are intuitive. What I do through my writings is to share, guide or facilitate. Take care, Evelyn Hello Victor,

No worries. I’m glad to have the opportunity to clarify in the email to you that I really do not see myself having “special” powers. As mentioned, spiritual or psychic abilities are not to be worshiped. We all have access to the same source, so in a way all of us are intuitive. What I do through my writings is to share, guide or facilitate.

Take care,
Evelyn

]]> By: Victor Tan http://www.abundancetapestry.com/resolving-conflicts-peace-or-drama/comment-page-1/#comment-24883 Victor Tan Wed, 29 Apr 2009 09:19:43 +0000 http://www.attractionmindmap.com/?p=1340#comment-24883 Thanks Evelyn! :) I look forward as always to new revolutionary insights from you! :):):) Hope you don't mind I make too much noises here can le..:P Thanks Evelyn! :)

I look forward as always to new revolutionary insights from you! :) :):)

Hope you don’t mind I make too much noises here can le..:P

]]> By: Evelyn http://www.abundancetapestry.com/resolving-conflicts-peace-or-drama/comment-page-1/#comment-24877 Evelyn Wed, 29 Apr 2009 07:08:50 +0000 http://www.attractionmindmap.com/?p=1340#comment-24877 @David, I know...I know...we are all "guilty" of the same thought pattern. Making ourselves right strengths the sense of self. But this is false ego! I've asked myself what I've gained by doing that. The answer was - as you said - obvious i.e. more drama, less peace. @Victor, I must confess that I am not very good in Science. It's funny how coincidental things are. I just wrote a short clip yesterday about not knowing that much about all the technical explanations. Still, I have some knowledge on the topic of dimensions. However, going to it is going to take me hours to write. Perhaps I would share in a later post, when I also gather more insights. Let me answer one question that you have first - yes, the Akashic Records lie in the fifth dimensional field. @David, I know…I know…we are all “guilty” of the same thought pattern. Making ourselves right strengths the sense of self. But this is false ego! I’ve asked myself what I’ve gained by doing that. The answer was – as you said – obvious i.e. more drama, less peace.

@Victor, I must confess that I am not very good in Science. It’s funny how coincidental things are. I just wrote a short clip yesterday about not knowing that much about all the technical explanations. Still, I have some knowledge on the topic of dimensions. However, going to it is going to take me hours to write. Perhaps I would share in a later post, when I also gather more insights. Let me answer one question that you have first – yes, the Akashic Records lie in the fifth dimensional field.

]]> By: Victor Tan http://www.abundancetapestry.com/resolving-conflicts-peace-or-drama/comment-page-1/#comment-24873 Victor Tan Wed, 29 Apr 2009 06:19:49 +0000 http://www.attractionmindmap.com/?p=1340#comment-24873 Dear Evelyn, I have a question, but that is based on your latest Akashic Record post ( I can't post there). You mentioned something I find extremely interesting, the "fifth dimension" (the Spirituality). We understand from the laws of the Universe in Scientific perspective, that the Universe follows the Space-Time law, and there are 4 dimensions. Length, Width, Height, and TIME. Everything is relative to each other, and the dimension of the Space-Time is warped and curved, likened to a Cone. This was FIRST visualized by Prof Albert Einstein, which he published in his Special Theory of Relativity where he linked Space-Time with matter and Energy, and that EVERY object in this Universe can be represented by 4 numbers which define one unique position in the Universe. I understand you have a special power that enables you to view one's soul records, and I thought that since you mentioned about the "5th" Dimension, I like to hear from you more about this ? In your visualization, how is the 5th Dimension related to the 4 Dimensions explained in Science? Is the Akashic Records or the Akashic World in the 5th Dimension? How does it look like? Is there matter/energy inside? Thanks and I look forward to hearing your views! Regards Victor Dear Evelyn,

I have a question, but that is based on your latest Akashic Record post ( I can’t post there). You mentioned something I find extremely interesting, the “fifth dimension” (the Spirituality).

We understand from the laws of the Universe in Scientific perspective, that the Universe follows the Space-Time law, and there are 4 dimensions. Length, Width, Height, and TIME. Everything is relative to each other, and the dimension of the Space-Time is warped and curved, likened to a Cone. This was FIRST visualized by Prof Albert Einstein, which he published in his Special Theory of Relativity where he linked Space-Time with matter and Energy, and that EVERY object in this Universe can be represented by 4 numbers which define one unique position in the Universe.

I understand you have a special power that enables you to view one’s soul records, and I thought that since you mentioned about the “5th” Dimension, I like to hear from you more about this ? In your visualization, how is the 5th Dimension related to the 4 Dimensions explained in Science? Is the Akashic Records or the Akashic World in the 5th Dimension? How does it look like? Is there matter/energy inside?

Thanks and I look forward to hearing your views!

Regards
Victor

]]> By: David Cain http://www.abundancetapestry.com/resolving-conflicts-peace-or-drama/comment-page-1/#comment-24744 David Cain Mon, 27 Apr 2009 11:58:48 +0000 http://www.attractionmindmap.com/?p=1340#comment-24744 Great post, Evelyn. Trying to make others wrong is such an insidious habit. I was not even aware how much I did it until I read The Power of Now. Of course, I still do it, but much less. I think 'being right' and 'making others wrong' is still the main engine that drives politics everywhere. Peace or drama; when you put it like that way, it's an easy choice. Great post, Evelyn. Trying to make others wrong is such an insidious habit. I was not even aware how much I did it until I read The Power of Now. Of course, I still do it, but much less.

I think ‘being right’ and ‘making others wrong’ is still the main engine that drives politics everywhere.

Peace or drama; when you put it like that way, it’s an easy choice.

]]> By: Evelyn http://www.abundancetapestry.com/resolving-conflicts-peace-or-drama/comment-page-1/#comment-24727 Evelyn Mon, 27 Apr 2009 05:53:48 +0000 http://www.attractionmindmap.com/?p=1340#comment-24727 @Stacey, I like the way you've articulated about building space and giving time for observation. Yes, it is habitual that we react emotionally rather than taking a step back. Hopefully, in time, we can learn to respond with wisdom and compassion, rather than getting emotionally attached to the moment. @Davina, I learn a fair bit with every post. Blog comments are gems. After all, they come from a bunch of highly committed and evolved folks, like yourself :-) @Stacey, I like the way you’ve articulated about building space and giving time for observation. Yes, it is habitual that we react emotionally rather than taking a step back. Hopefully, in time, we can learn to respond with wisdom and compassion, rather than getting emotionally attached to the moment.

@Davina, I learn a fair bit with every post. Blog comments are gems. After all, they come from a bunch of highly committed and evolved folks, like yourself :-)

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