Comments on: Everlasting Tips To A Better Marriage Relationship

By: Kamila Jelenska

Kamila Jelenska — Wed, 25 Aug 2010 07:22:21 +0000

Hello!
My name is Kamila, I’m almost 35 and live in a town called Jelenia Góra in the south-west of Poland. I have been just surfing the web in search of ideas of how to release one’s emotions-thought I could suggest some ways to my boyfriend.
So I came across your site-good work! It is really great that you have learnt to share, and now you are sharing so much. I also found the articles on rashes very helpful. I thought it’s a hard task, to release, when the thing we have to release is something heavy to us. In my relationship it is me who does the talking and analyses things and he is the one who has learnt to be quiet. On the other hand in what I’m saying there is more science and less emotions while he is the one who writes poems.
So I guess he has already found his way of expressing emotions and I could encourage him to write more…
Best greetings and congratulations on the 10th anniversary!
Kamila

By: yaela

yaela — Tue, 10 Aug 2010 14:07:57 +0000

great tips. i will try to use them with my husband.thanks!

By: Lana-Daring Clarity

Lana-Daring Clarity — Mon, 19 Jul 2010 17:27:33 +0000

Hi Evelyn, I haven’t visited your blog in a while and just loved your recent posts especially this one. Very touching! You and your husband look great together. Wish you lots of love and many more years together.

By: Oluwafunmilayo

Oluwafunmilayo — Sat, 10 Jul 2010 21:07:11 +0000

Hi Evelyn,
So beautiful of you to have shared on your marriage. Congratulations on your 10th wedding anniversary and God bless you and yours for being a blessing to humanity. I have been married for 28 years but my husband still surprises me occasionally and prayer has kept us going strong together. I don’t know of what religious persuasion you are, but I’d like to share some successful marriage tips with you from a website hosted by Nancy Leigh Demoss http://www.reviveourhearts.com

I also pray (this Silent Unity prayer I learnt some years back) for you & your family as you journey through life together that:
The love of God enfolds you
The light of God surrounds you
The power of God protects you
The presence of God watches over you
Wherever you are, God is, now & always.

Big hugs to you
Oluwafunmilayo, Lagos-Nigeria

By: Evelyn

Evelyn — Sat, 10 Jul 2010 02:10:16 +0000

Hello Kelly,

My sincere apologies!! I have to go check my spam folder. I have never been quite up-to-date with the admin on this blog.

I am so happy to know that you and MusicMan have made it well past 10 years!! Yes it may make you sound old but I would call it an achievement. To have stayed together so long shows your desire and commitment to working things out. Way to go!!

I wish both of you more years of continued bliss!

With love,
Evelyn

By: Evelyn

Evelyn — Sat, 10 Jul 2010 02:01:24 +0000

Hello Zengirl,

Thank you for your warm wishes! Also thanks for sharing your story about how differences in upbringing can be bridged with understanding, trust and compromise. I also wish you and your husband many good years to come!

With love,
Evelyn

By: Kelly@SHE-POWER

Kelly@SHE-POWER — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 04:41:18 +0000

Evelyn

I think the comment I wrote last week must have ended up in the PAM folder somehow because I see it never made it here. Anyway, can’t recall everything I wrote, except to say I agree that the early years (particularly when kids are involved) are often the hardest and it takes a lot of commitment, personal responsibility and compassion to make a marriage work. Congratulations on your anniversary. It is a real achievement in this day and age to make 10 years. A couple of years ago when MusicMan and I had our same anniversary I was almost gobsmacked to have made it so far. At 12 years married now, my husband and I have been together longer than my own parents, which feels kinda strange when I think about. It also makes me feel old!

May you and your husband have many more wonderful years together.

Kelly x

By: Zengirl @ Heart and Mind

Zengirl @ Heart and Mind — Sat, 03 Jul 2010 02:49:15 +0000

Evelyn,

Congratulations on your 10th anniversary! It must feel great.

These are wonderful tips and I know because I have went through similar thing. Although Zenguy and I are both Indians, we are from different part of the countries and there are differences in way we were raised. It took some understanding and compromised but being married to your best friends comes in handy. Having complete trust is very important.

I am wishing many many more happy anniversaries for both of you!

By: Evelyn

Evelyn — Fri, 02 Jul 2010 07:25:17 +0000

Hi Kathy,

I had a lovely dinner date. Thank you

With love,
Evelyn

By: Evelyn

Evelyn — Fri, 02 Jul 2010 07:24:37 +0000

Hello Arlene,

You said “The challenge is to live them”….right on!

Thank you for your wishes,
Evelyn