Comments on: Confess Your Secrets http://www.abundancetapestry.com/confess-your-secrets/ Inter-Align with Abundance Thu, 11 Mar 2010 04:44:39 +0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Evelyn http://www.abundancetapestry.com/confess-your-secrets/comment-page-1/#comment-7744 Evelyn Mon, 27 Oct 2008 16:32:33 +0000 http://www.attractionmindmap.com/?p=134#comment-7744 Intothelight and Todd, do read my subsequent posts on guilt. On my site, I also share a fair bit about using EFT - emotional freedom technique. EFT is helpful in dealing with guilt. I have personal success stories with using this modality. Also, I have been using it to help others as well, with great effectiveness! Love, light and truth, Evelyn Intothelight and Todd, do read my subsequent posts on guilt. On my site, I also share a fair bit about using EFT – emotional freedom technique. EFT is helpful in dealing with guilt. I have personal success stories with using this modality. Also, I have been using it to help others as well, with great effectiveness!

Love, light and truth,
Evelyn

]]> By: Todd http://www.abundancetapestry.com/confess-your-secrets/comment-page-1/#comment-7612 Todd Sun, 26 Oct 2008 04:53:59 +0000 http://www.attractionmindmap.com/?p=134#comment-7612 Wow... some pitifully mediocre things people feel guilty about on here lol. I've found this page has only made me feel somewhat worse about my guilt - One particular incident of my doing many years ago has haunted me ever since and it is a far, far cry worse than anything on here so far - If I had been older at the time and found out I probably would have gone to prison - and hence I don't feel like sharing - This is the first time I have ever talked even vaugely about it. The guilt has also changed me entirely - stripped any hint of romantic sentiment and left me a cynical nihilist in these times. If anyone has any further information about dealing with guilt I'd be very interested to hear about it. Wow… some pitifully mediocre things people feel guilty about on here lol.

I’ve found this page has only made me feel somewhat worse about my guilt – One particular incident of my doing many years ago has haunted me ever since and it is a far, far cry worse than anything on here so far – If I had been older at the time and found out I probably would have gone to prison – and hence I don’t feel like sharing – This is the first time I have ever talked even vaugely about it. The guilt has also changed me entirely – stripped any hint of romantic sentiment and left me a cynical nihilist in these times.

If anyone has any further information about dealing with guilt I’d be very interested to hear about it.

]]> By: Ohm http://www.abundancetapestry.com/confess-your-secrets/comment-page-1/#comment-2942 Ohm Thu, 07 Aug 2008 05:02:42 +0000 http://www.attractionmindmap.com/?p=134#comment-2942 Hahaha....that is a gutsy way to ask your readers to confess. Although i must admit it worked with me too. Ok, here it goes. when I was about 7 I stole some chewing gum from a shop on the way from school. *blushes Yeah, I know. It wasn't nice but I swear it was the first and last time I stole something... ..but then there was the incident when I escaped the police on a bike through winding back alleys because I was carrying an unlawful passenger. Oops, I'm still waiting for the fine. :-) -ohm Hahaha….that is a gutsy way to ask your readers to confess. Although i must admit it worked with me too.

Ok, here it goes. when I was about 7 I stole some chewing gum from a shop on the way from school.

*blushes

Yeah, I know. It wasn’t nice but I swear it was the first and last time I stole something…

..but then there was the incident when I escaped the police on a bike through winding back alleys because I was carrying an unlawful passenger. Oops, I’m still waiting for the fine. :-)

-ohm

]]> By: IntoTheLight http://www.abundancetapestry.com/confess-your-secrets/comment-page-1/#comment-2910 IntoTheLight Tue, 05 Aug 2008 19:51:49 +0000 http://www.attractionmindmap.com/?p=134#comment-2910 Okay, I will admit that i have made an awful lot of mistakes, some minor, some major... I'm trying to come to terms with the fact that they are done, and cannot be changed, but my perspective of these events can be... And so, here goes one.. From the ages of 12/13 to 16, i was clinically depressed and i regularly stole money from my mom to buy cannabis, or to pay off dealers with whom i had got into debt. My mom was struggling at this time as she was newly divorced from an abusive...beast, basically...certainly not human.. And i have come to realise that the only reason i smoked pot was to gain acceptance from those who i believed at the time to be my friends. Pretty sh*tty of me, i know. We (my mom and i) have made ammends, but this still pains me, as she knew fine well that i had taken the money, sometimes upto a hundred pounds in a week, yet i denied it 'til i was blue in the face. Okay, I will admit that i have made an awful lot of mistakes, some minor, some major… I’m trying to come to terms with the fact that they are done, and cannot be changed, but my perspective of these events can be… And so, here goes one..
From the ages of 12/13 to 16, i was clinically depressed and i regularly stole money from my mom to buy cannabis, or to pay off dealers with whom i had got into debt. My mom was struggling at this time as she was newly divorced from an abusive…beast, basically…certainly not human..
And i have come to realise that the only reason i smoked pot was to gain acceptance from those who i believed at the time to be my friends.
Pretty sh*tty of me, i know.
We (my mom and i) have made ammends, but this still pains me, as she knew fine well that i had taken the money, sometimes upto a hundred pounds in a week, yet i denied it ’til i was blue in the face.

]]> By: Evelyn http://www.abundancetapestry.com/confess-your-secrets/comment-page-1/#comment-2845 Evelyn Mon, 04 Aug 2008 00:56:11 +0000 http://www.attractionmindmap.com/?p=134#comment-2845 @Robert, only when you are ready :-) @Jonathan, oh come on...half of the commentors here will be confessing to the same social media addiction! Yes...it is important to resolve any inner conflict that comes with being true to one's heart versus doing stuff that is "good for me". @Robert, only when you are ready :-)

@Jonathan, oh come on…half of the commentors here will be confessing to the same social media addiction! Yes…it is important to resolve any inner conflict that comes with being true to one’s heart versus doing stuff that is “good for me”.

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]]> By: Jonathan Mead http://www.abundancetapestry.com/confess-your-secrets/comment-page-1/#comment-2780 Jonathan Mead Fri, 01 Aug 2008 20:11:36 +0000 http://www.attractionmindmap.com/?p=134#comment-2780 I confess that I'm addicted to social media. Oh that's not what you meant? Right... I'm not as honest with myself as I should be and sometimes deny my own feelings about what I really want and what really makes me happy. I often do things that I think are "good for me" but my heart isn't really in it. I confess that I’m addicted to social media.

Oh that’s not what you meant? Right…

I’m not as honest with myself as I should be and sometimes deny my own feelings about what I really want and what really makes me happy. I often do things that I think are “good for me” but my heart isn’t really in it.

]]> By: Robert A. Henru http://www.abundancetapestry.com/confess-your-secrets/comment-page-1/#comment-2760 Robert A. Henru Fri, 01 Aug 2008 09:35:50 +0000 http://www.attractionmindmap.com/?p=134#comment-2760 What a funny joke, thanks for sharing it! I confess that I got some dark secrets too dark to be confessed here :P! Got to miss the confession challenge Robert What a funny joke, thanks for sharing it!
I confess that I got some dark secrets too dark to be confessed here :P !
Got to miss the confession challenge
Robert

]]> By: loveandunderstanding http://www.abundancetapestry.com/confess-your-secrets/comment-page-1/#comment-2721 loveandunderstanding Thu, 31 Jul 2008 14:50:58 +0000 http://www.attractionmindmap.com/?p=134#comment-2721 I don't usually write experiences on blogs, but seeing as how open you people and having read other's 'secrets' i'll choose my anonymity and share something that not many people know. I was quite serious about my last girlfriend, when she broke up with me because she thought she was having second thoughts and she didn't want to be unfair to me. I was really upset at the time, and decided to not speak to her after that. Well, i've still not exactly gotten over her yet (almost two years later!)and i think it's a bit pathetic of me. The thing that hurts is that, even when we were broken up, there were kisses on cheeks and holding hands. I'm in another country now (As a student) and we've started talking, often having conversations about philosophy and music, and well, i really can't figure out if she feels anything (because there are obvious signs sometimes, like calls at 2 am to talk about nothing at all, and times when we don't really speak much). Between trying to sort my feelings out and her going through sorting out her life and family, i really don't think i can tell her how i feel..even if it's only for the sake of saying it and walking off, it also looks like i won't be seeing her for about 2 more years now, i just really wish i could tell her. I don't know if that ^ counted as much of a secret. @ Ash, i really don't see why you're feeling bad about what you did. I think it takes courage if not anything else. I hope you're happy with the person you're with! @ Kelly, that sounds like a hell of a ride, but it's awesome to find the light at the end of the tunnel. I believe in recreational drug use, but know it can lead to dark places. *steps off soapbox* I don’t usually write experiences on blogs, but seeing as how open you people and having read other’s ’secrets’ i’ll choose my anonymity and share something that not many people know.

I was quite serious about my last girlfriend, when she broke up with me because she thought she was having second thoughts and she didn’t want to be unfair to me. I was really upset at the time, and decided to not speak to her after that. Well, i’ve still not exactly gotten over her yet (almost two years later!)and i think it’s a bit pathetic of me. The thing that hurts is that, even when we were broken up, there were kisses on cheeks and holding hands. I’m in another country now (As a student) and we’ve started talking, often having conversations about philosophy and music, and well, i really can’t figure out if she feels anything (because there are obvious signs sometimes, like calls at 2 am to talk about nothing at all, and times when we don’t really speak much). Between trying to sort my feelings out and her going through sorting out her life and family, i really don’t think i can tell her how i feel..even if it’s only for the sake of saying it and walking off, it also looks like i won’t be seeing her for about 2 more years now, i just really wish i could tell her.

I don’t know if that ^ counted as much of a secret.

@ Ash, i really don’t see why you’re feeling bad about what you did. I think it takes courage if not anything else. I hope you’re happy with the person you’re with!

@ Kelly, that sounds like a hell of a ride, but it’s awesome to find the light at the end of the tunnel. I believe in recreational drug use, but know it can lead to dark places.

*steps off soapbox*

]]> By: Evelyn http://www.abundancetapestry.com/confess-your-secrets/comment-page-1/#comment-2697 Evelyn Wed, 30 Jul 2008 10:40:36 +0000 http://www.attractionmindmap.com/?p=134#comment-2697 Hello Ash, thanks so much for sharing. You are very brave; it must have taken a lot of courage for you to write your story. You must have been through a lot. I can only imagine the suffering on all parties involved. May you find peace! Evelyn Hello Ash, thanks so much for sharing. You are very brave; it must have taken a lot of courage for you to write your story. You must have been through a lot. I can only imagine the suffering on all parties involved. May you find peace!

Evelyn

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