101 Negative Money Beliefs

by Evelyn on January 29, 2009

Do you face extreme difficulty in manifesting material wealth? Well, can it be that you have negative money beliefs lying at the back of your subconscious mind?


(Photo Credit: emdot)

Negative money beliefs are not mere fleeting thoughts. They run a hidden program much like a software, sabotaging your best intents. They are the small “voices” in your head that actually override what you like to believe but don’t.

What goes on in your subconscious wields much power, perhaps even more so than your conscious mind. If you don’t already know this, it has been estimated that the average man uses not more than 10 percent of his mental power. The remaining 90 percent of mental activities take place subconsciously.


A Simple Way To Check On Your Money Beliefs

If you think you do not have any negative money thoughts, then try this simple exercise. Think about your parents. What kind of money beliefs do they have? Very often, your own money beliefs are unconsciously ingrained since your childhood days because of the beliefs of your parents. It might well be that your parents often discussed their money problems. Within earshot, their repeated words made an imprint in your subconscious, even while you were playing with your toys in the living room back then. Please note that this exercise is not a blaming exercise. Rather, it is one to create awareness and understanding. Your parents did not know better and they were probably brought up in exactly the same way, as they’ve raised you.

Regular Mental Housekeeping

It is a Chinese custom to spring clean our homes before the Lunar New Year begins. The whole house is cleaned to usher in good luck. Out with the old and in with the new, so to speak. In addition to clearing old books and toys, I also took some time for a mental housekeeping exercise last weekend.

Approximately once a year, I go through a checklist of negative money beliefs. This time round, while working on the list, a thought struck. Perhaps some of my readers may be interested to do the same with my 101 list! Provided in the following paragraphs are more details on how I go about addressing mine.

The recent financial meltdown may also activate the program of lack that runs inside your head. While you already know that you “should” not worry, it is easier said than done. I prefer to decisively eliminate any negative beliefs with practical applications, such as with the use of the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT).

101 Money Beliefs

To work on negative money beliefs, it is best that you identify the specific ones that possibly hold you back. When you connect with your emotional pain of not having enough, EFT works more effectively. EFT is a method that involves tapping the meridian points on your face and body.

To start you off, however, you may wish to refer to my list of 101 negative money beliefs that I have collated from books, articles and discussions with others:

NEGATIVE COMMON MONEY BELIEFS
Many of us have beliefs that come from what others say or what others will like us to believe.

1 Money doesn’t grow on trees.
2 Money is filthy and dirty.
3 Money is evil.
4 I am poor but clean (or good).
5 Money is in short supply.
6 Money goes out faster than it comes in.
7 The cost of living is so high that it is impossible to keep up.
8 It’s hard to hold onto money.
9 A penny saved is a penny earned.
10 It’s better to hoard money. You never know when the rainy day will come.
11 A Depression can come at any moment.
12 Only people who cheat have money.
13 Money only comes from hard work.
14 I can only earn more when I put in more hours at work.
15 Rich people are greedy and dishonest.
16 Money is not spiritual.
17 It is a sin to have a lot of money.
18 Spiritual people are not supposed to be rich.
19 It’s easier to spend than save money.
20 Poor people can never get out from under.
21 Rich people are seldom happy.
22 Credit card companies are loan sharks.
23 I need lots of money first to make more money.
24 It’s hard to have multiple sources of income coming in, other than from my job.
25 It is difficult to make money from my investments.
26 There is a limit to how much I can earn.
27 Good opportunities hardly come by.

IDENTITY / SELF ESTEEM BELIEFS
Many of our negative money beliefs stem from having a poor self esteem. You need to address money beliefs at root causes, otherwise you would have largely missed addressing them at the right areas. Working on self-love issues opens you to receiving abundance more freely into your life. The entire process of working on yourself may sound tedious but just remember this: Thoughts of unworthiness will not be able to attract the same vibrational frequency of money, essentially a spiritual asset and a form of energy exchange.

28 I do not deserve success.
29 I do not have unique talents or abilities.
30 Others just do not like me.
31 Everyone else comes first.
32 I am not worthy as a person.
33 I’ll probably just fail anyway.
34 I don’t deserve money.
35 I’m not good enough to make money.
36 I’m no better than my parents, so I shouldn’t make more then they did.
37 But we can’t afford that.
38 I cannot handle or manage money well.
39 I am such a loser.
40 If I’m successful, my friends will be jealous and stop liking me.
41 I will never get a good job.
42 I am always in debt.
43 My bank account will always be low.
44 I don’t want to have money and be stuck up.
45 I may just forget what’s truly important and not like the person I’ve become.
46 I resents others having money.
47 I will never be able to make much money.
48 I am just too stupid to make money.
49 I am just too slow to make money.
50 It is just too difficult to get ahead based on my lack of academic qualifications.
51 My parents were poor, and I will be poor.
52 It is best to remain poor so that my relatives will not borrow money from me.
53 Artists (or whatever your profession is) have to struggle hard to earn a living.
54 Oh, I can’t charge that much.
55 Oh, I can’t charge more than my competitor.
56 Making money is just too difficult.
57 No one has ever said that making money is easy.
58 I am just not good with money.
59 Never tell anyone what I have in the bank.
60 I can never pay off my credit card bill.
61 I don’t like receiving bills.
62 I don’t like writing checks to pay others, even if it is for a payment for their services.
63 I don’t deserve a pay rise.
64 It’s not right to ask for a pay raise.
65 I don’t like being in the limelight.
66 I like to buy gifts for others but I find it hard to spend on myself.
67 The higher I go, the harder I will fall.
68 I will never be a millionaire.
69 I will never gain financial freedom.
70 I am only worth minimum wage.
71 I find it hard to value my own potential.
72 It is best not to earn too much because I don’t want to pay more in alimony.
73 I cannot change my predetermined fate.
74 I just don’t like to think about money.
75 I don’t want to attract friends for the wrong reasons.

VALUE BELIEFS
These are beliefs that you hold about your life and your experience of it.

76 Without money, I am worth nothing.
77 I prefer to dream small so that I am not too pressurized.
78 I do not love myself for who I am.
79 I cannot be happy if I am rich.
80 I am unable to manifest abundance.
81 My life is one of suffering.
82 Only with money, can I live life fully.
83 I cannot do what I love because it does not pay well.
84 I do not like to take responsibility.
85 Life is meant to be a struggle, not a breeze.
86 Why should the Universe/God support me?
87 Everything I touch is a disaster.
88 I am never lucky.
89 Only dreamers think they can get rich but I am a realist.
90 Dreams rarely come true.
91 Miracles rarely or never happen to me.
92 I will never have enough.
93 I feel safe being poor.
94 It is dangerous to be rich.
95 I will always be poor.
96 The future has nothing good in store for me.
97 It’s okay to be able to survive each day.
98 Abundance is not my birthright.
99 The more money I have, the more problems I will have.
100 It is impossible to have it all: a loving family, a job I love, great friends, good health and lots of money.
101 There is no need for more since I can’t take it with me anyway.

Next, in order to know if there are any statement that holds true in your subconscious, you may wish to muscle test yourself. Or if you are familiar with dowsing, you can also use your pendulum to check against your subconscious mind. If any statement is found to be true, tap away the negative money belief, using the statements as follows….

“Even though I believe that money is the root of all evils, I deeply and completely love and accept myself. I forgive myself and all others who have contributed to the same situation.”

“Even though I __________, I deeply and completely love and accept myself. I forgive myself and all others who have contributed to the same situation.”

There are slight variations to how you can apply EFT to your meridian points. But they essentially achieve the same goal. Here is a video that shows the points that you can tap:

Resources:

If you need more information on EFT, check out the following:

1. The official website – Emofree provides a ton of information. Update!! Gary Craig, the founder of the technique, has just announced his retirement and may no longer be updating it!!

2. Prefer to be shown how to do EFT? If you are a Singaporean and would like to work on your money beliefs, I offer workshops. Do send me an email at abundancetapestry [at] gmail.com for more details. I also offer personal consultations if you prefer to work one-on-one.

3. EFT Downloads.

Money Blessings
May all my readers be open to receiving an endless flow of abundance – including financial prosperity – always!! May your material needs be met, your choices divinely guided and your wealth constantly increasing! May you be well, happy and complete!!

Your Comments Please

Do you have money beliefs that you suspect are holding you back? What, in your experience, have caused them to take root? What methods are you using to eliminate them?

Related Posts with Thumbnails

Popularity: 7% [?]

Share and Enjoy:
  • Digg
  • del.icio.us
  • Netvouz
  • DZone
  • ThisNext
  • MisterWong
  • Wists

{ 6 trackbacks }

Sinne des Menschen beim Lernen » Hippos Lehr-Hörbuch Blog
January 30, 2009 at 4:49 pm
Working on your tail enders :: Louis Yagera - InfiniteXpansion [Brainwaves entrainment| Hemi-sync| Meditations| Law Of Attraction]
February 4, 2009 at 12:20 am
Creating Positive Money Beliefs : Empowered Soul Blog
February 10, 2009 at 9:28 am
Seeing Good » Blog Archive » Can You Think Yourself Richer? - The Bright Side of Life
March 26, 2009 at 4:04 am
Happy Mother’s Day To The Moms Who Blog |
May 13, 2009 at 4:06 am
The Financial Intelligence Factor | IQ Matrix Blog
July 27, 2009 at 9:45 pm

{ 38 comments… read them below or add one }

Thomas Herold January 29, 2009 at 11:49 am

Excellent list on money beliefs…

Thomas

[Reply]

LifeMadeGreat | Juliet January 29, 2009 at 3:59 pm

Hi Evelyn

This is a wonderful list of money beliefs! Thank you for sharing.

With muscle testing I prefer not to test myself and rather have someone else (preferably an objective person) test, as our beliefs are so powerful that we can easily influence the outcome.

Thanks again,

Juliet

[Reply]

Daphne January 29, 2009 at 4:20 pm

Hi Evelyn,

I love the idea of spring-cleaning our minds as well as our homes. Yes there is too much useless clutter in my mind, and I’ll remember next time I come across any of these beliefs, to throw them out to keep my mind nice, clean and spacious for lots of good money thoughts to flood in!

[Reply]

Evelyn January 29, 2009 at 4:49 pm

@Thomas, thanks for dropping by my site!!

@Juliet, good for you!! I’m glad that you’d be able to make use of this list!

@Daphne, I love your attitude!! To less clutter whether externally or internally!

[Reply]

CG Walters January 29, 2009 at 5:57 pm

Thank you, Evelyn. This is and excellent ‘house cleaning’ of the subconscious for the Chinese New Year!
Many blessings and good fortune to you and yours,
CG

[Reply]

Jay January 29, 2009 at 9:15 pm

Wow Evelyn- what a great list of money beliefs. I can certaintly relate to some of those because I held them for so long. I try now to remember that money is like everything else, it comes and it goes. No point in getting attached.

[Reply]

Happiness Is Better January 29, 2009 at 10:09 pm

I really like the idea of spring cleaning your home, but also your mind. I’ve had a lot of difficulty sleeping the past few months. The thoughts are not negative per se while I am trying to sleep, but my mind seems to race as soon as the lights go off. Perhaps, I need to declutter my mind to ensure a better night’s rest.

Great article!

[Reply]

Dan Massicotte January 29, 2009 at 11:35 pm

There are so many! I didn’t think some people actually think that they are only worth min. wage!

[Reply]

Monica January 30, 2009 at 4:39 am

Evelyn,
Thanks for sharing your list and the links to the downloads. What struck me was how many of these beliefs are a part of our cultural language.
It seems an acceptable part of our culture to repeat a lot of these beliefs out loud as well. I have found that I have to be careful with what I agree to during conversations. It’s just too easy to validate them during conversations and thus reaffirming the negative cycle.
I will visit this list again and again – Stumbled!

[Reply]

Marelisa January 30, 2009 at 4:57 am

Excellent list Evelyn, stumbled. I would add that a lot of people have a struggle mentality when it comes to money, meaning that they think that they have to sacrifice health and relationships in order to make a lot of money. Yes, making money does require hard work, but not to the point where you don’t have time to take care of yourself, have a hobby, and spend time with loved ones. I tried to watch the video (I love EFT) but I got a message that it wasn’t available (maybe that’s just in this part of the world).

[Reply]

Evita January 30, 2009 at 6:46 am

Evelyn!

Wow this list and write-up is phenomenal!!! I will be using it as a resource and sharing it with as many as I can often, as so many people can benefit soooooo much from the information you have put together here! (me included ;)
THANK YOU!

[Reply]

Evelyn January 30, 2009 at 8:57 am

@CG Walters, good fortune to you too!!

@Jay, oh yes…money is just a form of energy exchange. When we start to crave, to attach, that’s when we start conveying signs of lack.

@Happiness is Better, ahh….meditation will definitely help you.

@Dan, you just may never know :-)

[Reply]

Evelyn January 30, 2009 at 9:03 am

@Monica, I spring clean approx once a year. The rest of the time, I focus on more positive affirmations or askings for divine guidance.

@Marelisa, most certainly making money requires hard work but we don’t have to struggle. We also struggle less when we are doing the things we love and in alignment with who we really are. Hope you can get to watch the EFT video eventually. EFT has been a life saver for my family and I!!

@Evita, thank you so much for your help!! It is my intent to share about what can be done, so that more people will benefit from letting go of their negative money beliefs.

[Reply]

Vincent January 30, 2009 at 9:24 am

Hi Evelyn,

This is a great article and I believe that you had listed a really long list of negative money beliefs that one shouldn’t have. Only be removing those beliefs than we are able to manifest wealth much more easily.

Cheers
Vincent
Personal Development Blogger

[Reply]

Vered - MomGrind January 30, 2009 at 9:54 am

I really enjoyed this post. I think my relationship with money is generally healthy. Perhaps I attach a bit too much significance to money as something that contributes to happiness, but I believe research shows that wealthy people ARE often happier, in the sense that they don’t have to deal with the type of financial worries that is the most stressful.

[Reply]

Arswino January 30, 2009 at 10:26 am

Evelyn, this is a great list. There are many good sayings which I can use them for my work. Thanks for sharing.

[Reply]

Andrea Hess|Empowered Soul January 30, 2009 at 11:00 am

Great list, Evelyn! As I was reading this and the comments, I was struck by how we don’t talk much about positive money beliefs. Just recently I read somewhere: “Money is love.” It was so contrary to what is held in collective consciousness! But why not? After all, we use money to shelter and feed ourselves, to buy ourselves and our loved ones the things we need and want, money allows us to play and enjoy life.

Anyway, it would be fun to have a list of positive money beliefs!

My personal take on money is that it’s just energy. And the amount of money currently flowing through our life is a direct result of how much energy we’re willing to exchange with the world.

Blessings,
Andrea

[Reply]

Stacey / Create a Balance January 30, 2009 at 11:04 am

As Marelisa said, excellent list and stumbled. Right now I’m working on embracing the belief that it’s easy to “have multiple sources of income coming in, other than from my job”.

[Reply]

Liara Covert January 30, 2009 at 12:09 pm

Why people adopt beliefs like those you list becomes part of a learning curve. Honest self-reflection unveils much wisdom to those ready to acknowledge it.

[Reply]

PeaceLoveJoyBliss January 30, 2009 at 8:45 pm

Hoi Evelyn,

I’m having fun flipping your money beliefs: 1) Money does grow on trees! (if you plant your own seeds); 2) Money is squeaky clean!; 3) Money is goodness galore!; 4) I am rich and clean (and good!) yuk yuk … :-)

Christopher

[Reply]

Alik Levin | PracticeThis.com January 30, 2009 at 9:06 pm

Loved “Only people who cheat have money.”

I am totally broke – now you know i am pure soul ;)

[Reply]

Evelyn January 30, 2009 at 10:59 pm

@Vincent, I’m glad that you find value in this post!

@Vered, thanks about sharing what research shows!

@Arswino, oh yes…do use the list to help others if you can!

@Andrea, you must be a mind reader!! My next post is on positive money beliefs!!! Thanks also for sharing that “money is love”. Agreed!!

[Reply]

Evelyn January 30, 2009 at 11:06 pm

@Stacey, hey…I am intending the same too!!

@Liara, you’re highly perceptive. Many of us will deny having many of these money beliefs outright! But it is the few who dare to look and acknowledge, that will gain the most from this exercise.

@Christopher, glad that you are having fun!! I hope to have as much fun writing my next post on positive money beliefs over the weekend!

@Alik, you just cracked me up with your comment!! However, there is no denying that you have a beautiful soul!!

[Reply]

SpaceAgeSage -- Lori January 31, 2009 at 3:51 am

Evelyn,
It’s a wonder any of us get over these limiting beliefs! I’ve worked with my husband on some of these and it really is freeing when he releases from one of them.

[Reply]

Poonam Sharma February 4, 2009 at 2:37 pm

Tios are very useful and come handy for abundance sesions on EFT.

[Reply]

Poonam Sharma February 4, 2009 at 2:37 pm

Tips are very useful and come handy for abundance sesions on EFT.

[Reply]

dolores February 9, 2009 at 5:18 am

Fascinating! I uncovered a number of subconscious negative money beliefs…tried the muscle testing and EFT… am trusting it will prove beneficial. Was surprised by some of my subconscious revelations!
I am familiar with dowsing but have never heard of the muscle test before. Loved it, thank you.

[Reply]

Evelyn February 9, 2009 at 8:24 am

@Lori, negative money beliefs are not useful and it is certainly a good idea to eliminate them. It’s great that your husband has observed good results!

@Poonam, I’m glad that you can put the tips to good use.

@dolores, dowsing is a form of muscle testing. So if you can do dowsing, then you can use it to check against your subconscious mind if you are holding any of the negative money beliefs. All the best!

[Reply]

Nathalie Lussier February 13, 2009 at 3:58 am

Evelyn, this is such a great list! I think I’m going to have to link to it in my free ebook. Do you mind if I link to it, I think it would really help my readers! :)

I love what you’ve done with your site, it’s really taking off! Way to go. :)

[Reply]

Evelyn February 13, 2009 at 10:27 am

Hello Natalie,

Sure!! I put up the post to help people; so if you wish to link to it, by all means go ahead. Thanks for helping to spread awareness on how important it is to work on our negative money beliefs!

Your warmest wishes are also appreciated! Much thanks!!

Evelyn

[Reply]

Terry March 17, 2009 at 1:41 am

This is so helpful. Thank you. I recognized a few of my beliefs on your list and will continue to work on them.

[Reply]

jessica March 26, 2009 at 11:28 pm

I love this post so much, I printed it out. Very very valuable stuff.

thanks!

[Reply]

Danny March 27, 2009 at 1:06 am

hi Evelyn,
Nice to meet you today. Yes, i used to dislike money in the past. After reading rich dad poor dad for the first time many years ago, my perception about money changed. You have done a great job in educating people about the subject of money. Awsome!

[Reply]

Evelyn March 27, 2009 at 8:11 am

@Terry, oh yes…I am happy to know that you intend to work on your negative money beliefs. Abundance Always!

@jessica, great! I am intending to turn it into a pdf file, collating all my thoughts on money beliefs. In the works!!

[Reply]

Evelyn March 27, 2009 at 8:16 am

Hi Hi Danny,

It was nice meeting you. My perception about money changed too, when I read “rich dad poor dad”. However, I did not know specifically how to change the beliefs I had. It took me some time to figure things out and work through many of them. I’m like an experimenter; I have tried a lot of techniques.

I’m glad that you took the time to check out my site! Thanks! All the best in your journey!

Abundance always,
Evelyn

[Reply]

Marcus Sheridan December 21, 2009 at 3:26 am

Hi Evelyn. This is my first time on your site and I loved this write up. Some really great, thought provoking stuff here. It’s funny how negative thoughts to our subconcious can come and go, so such reminders are very important. Thanks for your great work!

[Reply]

Suzie Cheel February 26, 2010 at 3:44 am

wonderful list thank you. It was great to read through the list and realise that I have shifted past most of those beliefs- great suggestion to use the pendulum- recently bought a new beautiful crystal one and love using it and really trusting me.

[Reply]

Amar July 29, 2010 at 7:29 pm

All brilliant information, but your forgetting the most important factor ever, MEMORIES.

MEMORIES are what cause beliefs, tapping on beliefs is pulling the weed but not pulling the weed root out.

Tapping on beliefs will only create temporary results.

[Reply]

Leave a Comment

Previous post: Benefits To Meditation

Next post: My Makeover